By Mirembe Martina
Taylor Swift wants you to know she is single, happy and it is very relaxing for her.
During an interview with Glamor UK in its November issue, the 23-year-old talked about her love life, her breakups and her songs. With high-profile exes such as Jake Gyllenhaal, John Mayer, Harry Styles, Taylor Lautner, Conor Kennedy, and Joe Jonas the ‘We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together’ singer said she does not have anything that can ruin a relationship for her but is more open when beginning a new relationship.
“If you have enough natural chemistry with someone, you overlook every single thing that you said would break the deal,” she said.
Talking about the usual relationship breaker, cheating, Swift is skeptical. “I’ve seen my friends take someone back after they’ve cheated because they fit perfectly. But I don’t know, because I’ve never had a perfect fit with someone,” she admitted. “You can’t say, ‘I’m never gonna date a high-profile person in the arts!’ But whoever I date, famous or not — whether I ever date again! — all chaos will break loose with fabrication and frantic obsession and who likes who more and how it ended.”
As for her relationship status right now, Swift said, “But right now is easy because I’m single and happy, and it’s very relaxing.” Talking about the hate that goes on all around the internet, Swift says she does not go anywhere looking for the negative things they say about her. “I never read one hateful thing said about me by some 12-year-old,” she told the mag. “So I got to live an actual life. And I’ve kept that mentality. Just because there’s a hurricane going on around you doesn’t mean you have to open the window and look at it.
“You can be obsessed with the bad things people say and the good things, either way you’re obsessed with yourself and I’m not,” she continued. “You can become unhinged so easily. Vanity can apply to both insecurity and egotism. So I distance myself, because I feel everything. The little I am exposed to hurts my feelings. The only things I can really control are my songs and my behavior. The rest? If I focused on it, that would lead to insanity.”